STEEL MAGNOLIAS IS ON!!

I shall prepare to cry.

Anyway, my sunburn is sooo much better after my plan! I woke up today and it was hardly bothering me at all. It itched a little, but that's it. I can't wait until it's healed enough that I can get in the tanning bed and even it out!

I miss Raymond. He's working so much overtime right now, it's driving me crazy. He works over every night and goes in early every day! I think things will get better once we are in the apartment. We plan to have a movie night like we used to, complete with blankets, popcorn, etc. And I want to make a big meal. I'm thinking tacos, black bean and corn burritos, my guacamole...what else? I'm not sure. I guess chips and salsa!

Ugh...I used to think all the stupid people on Bolt were gone.

I'm so tired of people who say this: "If you don't (whatever here), then you shouldn't be having sex."

Now, if it's about birth control or protection-understandable. But, people now say that so much that the littlest thing can make them tell someone they shouldn't even be allowed to have sex. Some sixteen year old on the SQ board is slightly confused about what to do when she gets on top. To me, that's perfectly normal. I was unsure too because I was afraid I'd do something wrong and ruin the experience or I wouldn't be good. Well, apparently to some people (who are notorious for being bitchy for fun) *cough*Willow27*cough* think that makes a person so stupid, they shouldn't have sex. Apparently, she was so good at everything, that her boyfriend thought she was a sex goddess the first time she did anything new with him. What does she want, a cookie? Like I believe such shit anyway...*rolls eyes*

I just hate people who have to be rude to others and then make themselves seem like they are above them. I think that is just one of the most despicable qualities in a person. I've gotten to the point where I just cannot stand meanness.

Now, before I write this, I'm going to say-I do not want fights in my journal, I do not want drama in my journal. If you accuse me of being two-faced, or whatever, I will just delete what you say. I'm not trying to come off as defensive, but there is SO much drama surrounding this board that I know I'm taking the risk by posting this (especially publicly). And really, I don't think I'm wrong for saying what I think-since more than one person from there has posted vicious shit in their journal about me before because I simply speak my mind. Besides, there isn't anything I say in here that I wouldn't say right on the boards.

Something that was said on the Parenting board really got to me. Some chick made an update about recently getting married, etc. And some girl is like, "OMG, like, didn't he rape you (talking about her husband)?" and then went on to tell her why she was not supportive of what she was doing and how messed up she was.

Now, yes, this girl must have posted that publicly and yes I do think marrying someone you believe raped you is quite crazy. But that was so out of line and it made me so angry...I think of that woman as a complete scumbag now. One because she drudged up something that was probably hard for the girl to move on from and forget about or live with everyday and then proceeded to insult her about it in front of everyone! You'd have to be a bottom-feeder to do something like that, seriously. Two, her reasons for doing it are basically having to do with stupid crap they've argued about before. Even if she had felt insulted enough by something previously that she had a right to say something like that, it was just so fucking gross. It totally pissed me off. Someone who comes out to talk about a rape should never have to deal with scandalous little witches like that. I seriously think that girl deserves a slap hard enough to cut her back down to her true size.

Anyway...

All is good. Tee-hee.